I Inherited My Grandmother's 'Worthless' Sapphire Ring. 40 Years Later, a Gemologist Discovered What It Really Was (And Why She Never Told Anyone)
I Inherited My Grandmother's
'Worthless' Sapphire Ring
She wore it for 42 years. Told everyone it was fake. After she died, a gemologist discovered the truth: 4.2ct unheated Burmese sapphire, circa 1943, worth $200,000. Her hidden letter explained why she never told anyone—and why I'm keeping it.
The Ring I Grew Up With
My grandmother wore the same ring every single day for 42 years. A simple gold band with a deep blue stone.
"Is that a sapphire, Grandma?"
"Just glass, sweetheart. Costume jewelry. Your grandfather bought it at a market in 1943."
She said this so many times I stopped asking. The ring was worthless. Everyone knew it.
When she died in October 2023 at age 98, she left the ring to me. I put it in a drawer and forgot about it.
💎 The Appraisal
Six months after her death, I was cleaning out her house. I found a note tucked in her jewelry box:
"Have the blue ring appraised. Don't believe what I told you. The truth is in the safe deposit box. Key taped under the kitchen drawer."
I found the key. Went to the bank. Opened the safe deposit box.
Inside: a gemological certificate from 1987 and a sealed letter addressed to me.
The Certificate
The certificate was from GIA (Gemological Institute of America), dated March 1987:
- Stone: Natural sapphire
- Weight: 4.2 carats
- Origin: Burma (Myanmar)
- Treatment: No indications of heat treatment
- Color: Vivid blue
- Clarity: VVS (very very slightly included)
- Cut: Cushion cut, excellent proportions
- Estimated value (1987): $85,000-$95,000
I read it three times before it sank in.
The "worthless" glass ring was a 4.2ct unheated Burmese sapphire worth $85,000-$95,000 in 1987.
Current value (2024): $180,000-$220,000.
The Letter
I opened the sealed letter. It was dated 2019, four years before she died. Her handwriting, shaky but clear:
"My dearest granddaughter,
If you're reading this, I'm gone. And you've found the certificate. Now you know the truth about the ring.
Your grandfather didn't buy it at a market. He gave it to me in 1943, three days before he shipped out to Burma during the war. He said: 'This is a promise. I'm coming back to you.'
He did come back. But he was different. The war had changed him. He never spoke about what happened in Burma, but I knew it haunted him.
In 1987, I had the ring appraised. When I saw the certificate—Burma origin, 1943—I understood. He'd taken this sapphire from Burma. I don't know how. I don't know if he bought it, found it, or took it from someone who died.
But I knew if anyone found out, they'd ask questions. Questions he couldn't answer. Questions that would destroy the man I loved.
So I lied. I told everyone it was glass. I wore it every day as a reminder of his promise—but I protected his secret.
He died in 2006. I've kept the secret for 17 years since then. But you deserve to know the truth.
The ring is yours. Sell it, keep it, do whatever you want. But know that it represents a promise kept, a secret protected, and a love that survived war.
I love you. I'm sorry I lied.
— Grandma"
What I Did Next
I had the ring independently appraised by three different gemologists. All confirmed:
- 4.2ct natural sapphire
- Unheated (no treatment)
- Burma (Myanmar) origin
- Circa 1940s based on cut style
- Current value: $180,000-$220,000
I could sell it. Pay off my mortgage. Change my life.
But I'm keeping it.
💚 Why I'm Keeping It
My grandmother wore this ring for 42 years, telling everyone it was worthless. She protected my grandfather's secret. She kept a promise.
The ring isn't just worth $200,000. It's worth a lifetime of loyalty, a wartime promise, and a love that survived secrets.
I wear it every day now. And when people ask if it's real, I say: "Just glass. Costume jewelry."
I'm keeping her secret. And keeping the ring.
The Historical Context
Burma (now Myanmar) was a major sapphire source during WWII. Allied soldiers stationed there had access to gemstones that were otherwise unavailable due to wartime trade restrictions.
Many soldiers brought sapphires home—some purchased legitimately, some acquired through less clear circumstances. My grandfather's sapphire was likely one of these wartime acquisitions.
The 1940s cut style and Burma origin confirm the timeline matches his deployment.
🔍 Why Burmese Sapphires Are Valuable
Burmese sapphires (especially from the Mogok region) are among the world's finest:
- Vivid blue color: The "cornflower blue" that collectors prize
- Exceptional clarity: Burmese stones typically have fewer inclusions
- Unheated rarity: Most modern sapphires are heat-treated; unheated Burmese stones are extremely rare
- Historical significance: Burma mines have produced sapphires for over 1,000 years
- Current restrictions: US sanctions on Myanmar make new Burmese sapphires unavailable, increasing value of existing stones
The Value Breakdown
4.2ct Unheated Burmese Sapphire Value
| Year | Estimated Value |
|---|---|
| 1943 (acquisition) | $500-$800 |
| 1987 (GIA appraisal) | $85,000-$95,000 |
| 2024 (current) | $180,000-$220,000 |
Value increased 200-250X from 1943 to 2024, primarily due to rarity of unheated Burmese sapphires and US sanctions limiting new supply.
What This Taught Me
1. Family Heirlooms Have Hidden Stories
My grandmother's "worthless" ring was worth $200,000. How many other families have heirlooms they don't understand?
2. Secrets Protect Love
She lied for 42 years to protect my grandfather. Sometimes secrets are acts of love, not deception.
3. Value Isn't Always About Money
I could sell this ring and change my life financially. But keeping it honors a promise, a secret, and a love story that survived war.
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💡 What to Look For
Signs an "old family ring" might be valuable:
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- Good size: 2ct+ stones are rare and valuable
- Old cut styles: Cushion cuts, old mine cuts (pre-1950s)
- Heavy gold settings: 18K or platinum (not 14K or plated)
- Vague family stories: "Your grandfather brought it back from the war" or "Great-aunt said it was worthless"
The Bottom Line
My grandmother wore a $200,000 sapphire for 42 years, telling everyone it was glass. She protected my grandfather's secret. She kept a wartime promise.
I'm keeping the ring. Not because of its value, but because of what it represents: loyalty, love, and the secrets we keep to protect the people we love.
Key lessons:
- Get family heirlooms appraised—you might be surprised
- Unheated Burmese sapphires are extremely valuable (especially pre-sanctions)
- Sometimes "worthless" family jewelry is worth six figures
- Secrets can be acts of love, not deception
- Value isn't always about money—sometimes it's about honoring promises
The ring my grandmother called "just glass" is worth $200,000. But to me, it's priceless.
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